How people treat you is a complete reflection of themselves. People are of different mental capabilities.
Some get matured by experiences, some learn from other people’s mistakes.
And some people pretend to play the victim part and never learns anything.
life is funny, here the stronger and honest persons are often called out as emotionless and indifferent. But no one ever tries to understand that a stronger person chooses to stay calm because arguing with the victim mindset will only drain away their time and space. It’s better to leave that dumb person alone, some people will only pretend to try and in the reality won’t try.
Action speaks louder than words…
Never listen to all that they say, they will promise to bring stars and moons etc. In reality, they don’t even know how to deal with a simple comment. Again this victim role-playing will be started.
Some rich kids think Money can buy them heaven. No dear, if your standard is like hell you will only get the hell in return. We don’t get what we want, we only get what we are. This is why a toxic group of people choose to stay together. And if you are outgrowing your surrounding, it is better to leave the place where you don’t belong.
Often in life, you will be misjudged by a single online post. And obviously, the people who don’t have the slightest idea about the person you are from within will comment something sarcastic or judgmental. People who are insecure with their personality tend to criticize others more. Because their minuscule ego is not enough capable to tolerate the truth.
We should admire rude and frank people more. Though they sound harsh, but they don’t try to manipulate you or sugarcoat your opinion. They will straight away say what they will feel genuinely.
Thank god, there are trustworthy and honest people alive on the planet, who tell you about your weaknesses and try to help you out. At least they don’t pretend to care, they actually take action. They even care without texting you or calling you. They don’t crave unnecessary attention because they know you’re not going anywhere.
In other words, people who trust you will be there for you no matter what happens. They won’t be insecure to get your attention. You don’t need to text them constantly, without even saying they will know what you feel. They won’t be judging you by a single online status you had given three weeks ago ( There are jobless/hopeless adults who are still thinking about your posts and statuses in real life because their own life is vague).
Everyone can’t be strong, it takes years of discipline and determination to be persistent. You cannot have growth overnight. This is a consistent journey. Weak-minded people will say there is no need to have growth because deep down they know they are incapable.
There is a very significant difference between a coward and a brave mind. And the difference is “Mindset”. One chooses to stay lazy and criticize. Others start to work on themselves. One keeps repeating the “Victim Mindset”. While the others follow their purpose. And there will be a time when it doesn’t matter what others say. Because you know what you are capable of, and you will achieve.
Money can buy most of the things, but money can’t buy you “Willpower”. And this willpower has changed the world, history knows it. Also, if you are Dumb, money can’t help you either, you’ll eventually lose it all. It is important to become educated about life.
The most resilient person is often the one who has the strong willpower to fight any storm. They know they will face it and learn from it. Everything happens for a reason. Every single experience will make you stronger and more mature.
There is a difference between resilience and dullness. Don’t get confused with it.
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