It has been almost a year since I last posted. A lot has happened and I had been preoccupied with kinds of stuff.
It is really amusing how life goes through hiccups, and every time you bounce back!
2021 was a year like that. But I am glad that mishaps happened, situations were messed up and I lost a dear one forever!
They say what doesn’t break you, only makes you stronger. True indeed.
Sometimes, patience is the only key. And later these become part of your experiences. Now I am glad for all those who rejected me, for all those opportunities that were never going to be mine.
And now things are completely changed, after one year. I am sitting and typing this and smiling. It was a ride full of tears and joy. A lot is going on in my life now. There is good news to share.
I want to get back to this habit of writing blogs frequently. As this is where I can be myself. This is my happy place. I want to start this on a weekly basis at first. Let’s begin another journey.
This time I don’t need to prove anything to anybody.
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Now, these are the most uncertain time of our lives. We all never anticipated something like this to happen! We don’t know when it will be over. It has already been more than a month of my quarantine while I am writing this post.
We all had high hopes for 2020. We made goals and plans for the year ahead. Now the first quarter of the year is over, and most of the people in the world are now clueless. We have become victims of the circumstances.
We are forced to stay indoors, we are forced to work from home. The humankind is pushed through the edge, we have to change the normal lifestyle we have.
Everything normal feels unreal now. The unexpected has replaced the normal.
The daily routine is now changed. Every household is facing issues with this new set of daily chores. Let’s get to this easier example. Whenever you are looking at any social network, there are a lot of recipes, dalgona coffee, quarantine pics etc.
There is no certainty when this quarantine will be over. We can take a break from the hasty lifestyle now. We can sleep for proper hours and binge watch series. We can start reading the book which was not finished for long. We can stay indoors and be safe from the pandemic. There are endless options.
The choice is yours. You can invest the time by doing what you love. You can also submerge in frustration and dwell into depression during the quarantine. We become what we think. This is the time to become more mindful about the areas in life which were neglected for long. So when the pandemic is over, you’ll rise like a Pheonix. You’ll be changed, you’ll have growth. I know, this sounds corny. But this time can be implemented in many different ways.
Most of us are anxious now. It feels like the end of the world. Staying indoors can be extremely boring. But try to think from a different perspective. At some point, we all wanted to have a long weekend and do nothing. Now when this is happening, we don’t want that anymore.
Most of the people are so confused in their heads that they can’t even differentiate what’s right or wrong for them. I have seen people who are constantly confronting everyone around for a simple mistake. But in reality, that person is not flexible to consider someone else’s opinion. We all have some parts of ourselves which were never exposed. We are afraid to change. We are afraid to let go.
Someday you’ll know that it’s time for a change.
And what could be better timing to change some areas in your life? Change is not easy. You need a strong will to proceed further. From continuous change, there will be growth. And you must keep a flexible mindset, be willing to learn new things. Learning never ends.
Every person is different and we’ll have different pieces of stuff to focus on. Hope everyone will experience something significant from this quarantine and it will help us to become a better version of ourselves.
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Life is all about changes. Changes which are rapid and drastic. There are moments when you don’t get enough amount of time to realize the change. And when you start to realize, it’s too late.
When I recall my childhood days, I find everything to be quite simple. There weren’t any social media. But we had family & friends. And our lives revolved around them. We didn’t have to worry about our pictures. Pictures used to be precious memories, not just a medium to show off. We were least bothered about a distant buddy who just went for a world tour and was posting travel pics. only the people close to us mattered.
Nowadays our lives are just piled up with innumerable kinds of stuff, most of the stuff is usually unnecessary. We are constantly worried about studies, career, health, money etc. And our schedule is so packed up that we don’t get enough time for leisure.
Obviously one needs to be ambitious to become successful in life. But life is too short to cherish what we love. We are not being able to spend our times doing what we love most. Instead, we are imitating what others are up to. Life is unpredictable, we don’t know what life has in store for us. But we have the steering wheel of our lives. We may not be able to see the near future, but we can try to control it. Life will always challenge us, we have to manage our priorities as per the situations.
We just don’t need to rush for everything. If something is meant to happen, it will happen eventually. None of us are perfect, it’s okay to be a little faulty at times. It’s completely okay if you can’t cope up to changes. Changes are always tough. We can’t adapt to changes suddenly. After all, we are “Human Beings”.
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